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Why women are choosing not to have kids

Updated: Mar 19, 2023

In the 21st century, women are choosing to have small families and no kids. This change is being driven by better knowledge about reproductive health and the availability of contraceptives. Smaller families mean that the couple gets more resources and time to spend on themselves and can focus on their careers better. Women are also making this decision because of their personal health and to prioritise their personal life. Women are building smaller families to build better relationships and prepare themselves to be better mothers.

This trend is especially pronounced in developed countries like the United States, where the cost of raising a child is high and women are increasingly choosing to pursue their careers. In Europe, the average number of children per woman is 1.5, which is much lower than the population replacement level of 2.1 children per woman. Birth rates in European countries like Germany hit an all-time low since 1950 last year, with around 475,000 births recorded (compared to over 780,000 deaths).According to Sarah Berrington, a research officer at the Oxford Institute of Population Ageing, "There is a general trend towards later childbearing and smaller family sizes, particularly in developed countries. This is due to a number of factors such as increased female labor force participation, delays in marriage and childbearing, and increased use of contraception."

The availability of contraceptives has given women more control over their reproductive health. Birth control information and devices have been available for over a century now, but it is only recently that they have become easily accessible to most couples. Birth control options like implants, intrauterine devices (IUDs), injections, and oral contraceptives are now easily affordable even by lower-income families.

In past decades, the oldest form of non-barrier contraceptives were spermicides (foam, cream, jelly or suppository), but today most women who use contraceptives prefer OTC birth control pills or IUDs. Marie Tae McDermott, a writer at The Atlantic believes that the availability of birth control has also allowed women to make decisions based on their career and lifestyle goals instead of their fertility goals. "Today, many women can and do postpone parenthood in order to focus on their career or education; they can also choose not to have children altogether. Birth control has made it possible for women to take control of their reproductive lives in ways that were unimaginable a century ago." The use of contraceptives has also allowed women to have better control over their personal lives. Birth control has led to a drop in the number of abortions, and several studies suggest that it can reduce crime rates by lowering the number of children growing up in poverty. Birth control is now widely accepted as an important intervention for population control, along with other well-known methods like sterilisation and abortion. Birth control has also been a crucial intervention in reducing the number of maternal deaths due to complications during pregnancy or childbirth.Some critics believe that the availability of birth control will lead to promiscuity, but there is no evidence to suggest any link between contraception and sexual behaviour. What is different today is that women now have the option of using contraceptives to prevent an unplanned pregnancy when they do have an affair.

Overall, the availability of contraceptives has allowed women to have more control over their lives and make decisions based on their personal goals and desires. Women are choosing to have smaller families and no kids, and this trend is likely to continue in the years to come. Birth control has given women a choice – a choice between having children and continuing their education, a choice between having children and working on their career, or a choice between having children and being able to focus on their personal life. This is a powerful choice that has never been available to women in the past. Thanks to birth control, women now have the freedom to choose what is best for them and their families.


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